I guess this moment is trying to teach me something—because I’ve been struggling to find my calm. I’ve had those “who send me message?” moments (as we say in Nigeria). I’ve had moments of really wanting to give up, yet I keep pushing. But one thing I’ve always struggled with is how overwhelming things feel when life gets tough. And when that happens, everything else stalls.
This past week has been tough, but maybe life is teaching me how to keep going—even when things are crazy, unsettling, and uncertain; even when I feel anxious and don’t know what to do.
I’ve struggled, but in these moments of struggle, I’ve also been my own best friend. My mind reminds me to stay calm, to focus on what’s in front of me, to acknowledge my blessings even as I work toward more. I’ve held my own hand through this moment. And it hasn’t been easy.
I’ve cried, and that’s okay. I’ve released energy. I’ve written letters to myself, confronting thoughts that weren’t kind and bringing myself back to grace. Even in the midst of uncertainty, I’m still trying, still showing up, still putting in the effort.
Strangely, deep down, I truly believe that—even in silence—everything happens as it should. Life is unfolding the way it’s meant to. I can choose to resist it or flow with it, to worry or to trust, to focus on the gaps or to be grateful for each moment.
I guess that’s what life is teaching me now.
What is life teaching you?
